Mary Kay and Amy celebrated their 10 year anniversary together in 2014.
28 years ago, a car accident changed Mary Kay’s life forever. About 18 years after her accident, she was watching a CBS news report and saw a piece on Helping Hands.
“I thought it quite comical that I could get a monkey to help me out, but I really didn’t give it any serious thought at that time because I believed it was too far-fetched of a notion – not something that could happen in my mundane life. So I immediately put the thought aside.
Amy adds a new dimension to my lifestyle in that she gives me a reason to be. As much as I depend on her she depends on me as well. I make all the decisions for her well-being and if I didn’t do a good job it would show in her health and her disposition towards me. I am Amy’s caretaker, her protector and savior when something scary is near and I relish this role.
Our relationship over the last 10 years has just become very normal. I can’t say when it changed from sheer awe to her just being one of the family although I will say that there are times during every day that I look at Amy in wonderment and still can’t believe I have her.
If someone were contemplating applying for a service monkey I would say if you are an animal lover, if you are alone for a portion of the day, if you have a need for more independence in your routine, if you are a patient person then you should make room in your life for a monkey helper.
A helper monkey can do so many things for their recipient such as open doors, drawers, containers, refrigerators, and much more – all of those obstacles that are major roadblocks for people living with disabilities that no one else gives a second thought about. I have loved the past 10 years with Amy and we look forward to the next 10 together.”
Bradley and Jerri, together since 2012
Bradley was a very active boy – never comfortable sitting still, he was one who climbed before he walked, and soon after he started walking, he ran. Then, at age 18, Bradley hit his head in a diving accident, shattering his C6 vertebra. Just graduated from high school, facing endless possibilities, Bradley’s life came to a crashing halt. He was now paralyzed.
Then, Bradley found out about Helping Hands and he decided to apply for a monkey helper. He completed the extensive process and was thrilled when, in April 2012, he was matched with Jerri, a bright, inquisitive, female monkey helper. Now, the two are inseparable: Jerri rides on Bradley’s lap, retrieves his phone or the TV remote when it falls out of reach, and carefully “grooms” him, searching for non-existent bugs.
“Since he’s had Jerri, he smiles all the time,” says Tilda, Bradley’s mom. “He’s totally different since she came.”
Now, Bradley is looking ahead: his future plans include college. “I’d like to go back to school and get a degree that would help me get a good job,” he says. Navigating this new territory now no longer seems so daunting, he says, explaining, “Jerri will be right there with me.”
ABOUT HELPING HANDS: MONKEY HELPERS
Thanks to the support of our donors, we provide these services free of charge to our recipients across the nation – services that include:
- We raise, train and match the monkeys with carefully chosen recipients
- We provide extensive coaching and customized in-home training at the start of each placement
- We oversee each monkey’s lifelong behavioral, nutritional and medical needs
- We provide ongoing active support and mentoring for every partnership
Visit www.monkeyhelpers.org for more information about our program. We are actively seeking new applicants across the country and encourage you to contact us if you have questions about your eligibility.
Video links:
Bradley and Jerri
Imagine a Monkey: http://monkeyhelpers.org/imagine-monkey
Mary Kay and Amy
Beyond the Tasks: http://monkeyhelpers.org/meet-our-monkeys/monkeys-in-minute/episode-9-2012-beyond-tasks