Since I am an avid researcher I immediately started looking into all of our options that would allow us to go somewhere where I could take both my manual chair and power chair. I suffer from a lot of physical injuries that prevent me from pushing my manual chair as a complete C6 quadriplegic. I am more than happy to sit in my manual chair for eight hours at a time, but after that I am just more comfortable in my power chair as I don’t have to be pushed, and I have the freedom to go where I want. This made my quest for researching a vacation slightly limited as I did not want to hop on a plane yet and check in both my manual and power chair. I had done this once before when I moved to China many years ago, and let me tell you it was anything but fun!After countless hours of exploring our options, I decided that a cruise was probably our best bet. It was cost-efficient, I could take as many bags as I needed on the ship, and I could easily take both my wheelchairs. I live in Raleigh, North Carolina, so I knew I could drive 9 to 12 hours down to Florida in my van with all of my gear. One thing the two of us love to do is swim together, sit by the ocean, and go on adventures. I thought starting out with a seven day vacation down to the Western Caribbean would give us enough time to enjoy ourselves, but not too long in case things went sideways.I posted a detailed account of our journey day by day on my personal blog if you are interested in every step of our journey. For the purposes of this article, I want to summarize some of the pros and cons of cruising as a handicap passenger.
I have always had a stigma against cruise ships because growing up on a small out island in the Bahamas I would always see cruise ships passing by, and I could not possibly fathom the concept of being stuck on a large ship with thousands of passengers. However, I decided to put my fears aside and give it a go. We chose one of the smaller ships on Royal Caribbean called the Rhapsody of the Seas with 2,900 passengers. It’s hard to believe that this was one of their smaller ships actually!
What I was really looking for was to be able to participate in some of the excursions off the ship, and experiment with how handicap accessible they would be. I learned that most of the shore excursions that Royal Caribbean provide were not actually handicap accessible unless you just want to get off the ship, and just roll around that particular city. I wanted to do something adventurous and rugged. With seven days on the ship, we had four days of shore excursions including Key West, Florida; Cozumel, Mexico; Belize City, Belize; and Costa, Mexico. I didn’t want to plan an excursion on every single one of these days, as I wasn’t sure how my body would handle so many outings. One challenge I had was my skin. I am literally like the “Princess and the Pee” in regards to getting a pressure sore at the drop of a hat. Generally, I find that most spinal cord injury patients have one or two medical issues that constantly resurface for them, such as pneumonia, constant urinary tract infections, pressure sores, respiratory infections, spasticity, etc. For me it’s osteoporosis and pressure sores. I have to be very careful not to break a bone, and if I don’t sit properly in my wheelchair, or have any kind of wrinkles in my clothing, I’m pretty much a goner with getting some sort of pressure sore. With all of this in mind, I set out to find how I could snorkel in the ocean in Mexico, and explore some of the Mayan ruins in Belize, which was on the top of my boyfriend’s list of things to do. I found two separate companies that offered “handicap accessible” excursions, and I use this word quite loosely as handicap accessible definitions in foreign countries are definitely not the same as in the United States. I knew I was going to have to take my manual chair on the day excursions, and my extremely strong boyfriend would have to lift me up wherever I needed to go.
What we learned and experienced was nothing short of terrifying. We found a company called Cruise Planners that offers an excursion for handicap accessible folks to go snorkeling on the beach. I naturally jumped at this opportunity, and when we got to Mexico, we were loaded into a pretty decent handicap van. When we arrived at the beach, the entrance into the water was covered with rocks and we’d have to carry me hundreds of yards over a slippery dock to get me into the choppy water. My boyfriend did a phenomenal job trying to carry me down the beach, but we got some help from fellow beach dwellers to get me into the dangerous part of the water. Once I was in the water, and I am somewhat of a fish, I put on my goggles, held onto a life preserver, and was pulled by the snorkeling guide in choppy water for about 45 minutes. If you’re at all scared of the water, this would not be the trip for you, but I was so keen on trying to participate in activities I did before my accident, that I just held on for dear life. While it was definitely an experience, I probably wouldn’t do this again. I underestimated, at 35 years old, the toll being carried up and down the beach, lifted multiple times, inhaling copious amounts of salt water, and bouncing around rough Mexican roads would be on my body. I wouldn’t trade this experience for the world, but I will say these type of off-road adventures for quadriplegics (if you’re not into risk-taking) is probably not the wisest choice! Regardless, we captured some great photos and managed to finally settle down on some beach chairs with piña coladas at the end of the day.
The other notable, wild and wacky adventure we went on was in Belize City. I found a company called Accessible Caribbean Vacations that offers accessible excursions to folks in wheelchairs at the ports where major cruise ships dock in Caribbean locations. I will say that if you are a paraplegic, it would be much easier to participate in these off-road type excursions, but as a quadriplegic, you need to make sure that you have someone strong who can ensure your safety, lift you up, and make sure nothing seriously dangerous happens to you! I opted to take a handicap van, and the definition of handicap van in Belize is definitely not for the faint of heart. We drove an hour down bumpy roads to go explore some ancient Mayan ruins. When we got into the van there were no tie downs whatsoever, I could not transfer into a seat, and the roads were not even remotely paved. My chair fell backwards, my boyfriend held onto me for dear life, and I sort of laughed and cried for the hour it took us to get to the Mayan ruins. When we finally arrived, I was overjoyed to watch my boyfriend climb up these ancient Mayan ruins because the look of pure joy in his face was completely worth, it even though I was borderline having heatstroke, bouncing around off-road paths, and watching everyone else climb up the ruins without me. I’ve been to Belize prior to my accident, and I think I was trying to compare what I used to do to what I can do now. I came to the realization that with being paralyzed, my definition of fun is definitely starting to change.
I really love to just swim, sit by the ocean, enjoy the company of the man I love, and go meet random people at Tikki hut bars at night. I find it comical that I learned this lesson in the middle of the jungle in a foreign country. Anyway, we made the best of the situation, captured some more great photos, and we now have a fabulous memory to share with one another for years to come. CONCLUSION: If you are a quadriplegic and decide to take a cruise with a power wheelchair ONLY, then many of the shore excursions are just not feasible. If you are a quadriplegic with a manual chair and you want to take some risks, don’t mind feeling uncomfortable, and are up for some rugged adventure, then by all means go for it! However, as adventurous as I am, I have to admit I was pretty nervous on many of our shore excursions with respect to pressure sores, and I actually did get a small one on my tailbone several days into the trip. I can only imagine it was from lying on towels in a wet bathing suit on the beach chair in Mexico.
On Board Activities
I can’t even begin to recount the waterfall of activities our cruise ship offered every day. There are giant screens all over the ship that tell you what’s happening on the cruise ship every hour of the day. It’s completely mind blowing. Activities range from ballroom dancing, nutrition classes, belly flop competitions in the pool, tango lessons, bingo, casino specials, classical music bands, dancing, drinking, art shows, shopping specials, etc. The list could literally go on. Since my boyfriend and I wanted to participate in several shore excursions, we had to get up at about 5am every morning to get the two of us ready by 9am sharp. The challenge for shore excursions was that you had to be back on the ship within a certain number of hours otherwise they will leave you. Therefore, by the time we got back on the ship at 5pm, showered up, and had a quick bite to eat – it was already 8:30pm. This didn’t leave much time to partake in many of the onboard activities since we were so knackered and just needed to sleep.
On the several days that we were cruising to destinations on the ship, we usually slept in a bit and then ventured out to explore the ship, so many of the activities were so crowded that I just didn’t find it appealing to be around hundreds of people in a small confined space. We did find areas of the ship where we could have a nice cigar, a glass of wine, and watch the ocean roll by as the insane amount of shenanigans on the ship happened without us. What makes our situation slightly unusual is that we actually enjoy our own company to the point that we don’t like having hundreds of people around us all the time. Honestly, I didn’t understand how much there was to do on a cruise ship until we actually took the cruise. If you’re in a wheelchair and cannot get off the ship and enjoy participating in a lot of activities to stay busy, then taking a cruise is definitely the right choice for you! You can always find something to do, there are so many places to eat and people are pretty friendly around the ship. With respect to the two of us, well, we really just wanted to hang out by ourselves. In hindsight, probably not the wisest choice to take a cruise, but I’m glad we at least tried it once.
Now, on to the pool. I was pretty excited at the prospect of swimming on the ship, but being that we were on one of the smaller ships, there was only one small pool for the whole ship. This made it extremely challenging because the pool was constantly filled with tons of people, which did not make me want to get in the water. Since I swim independently, I can’t have a bunch of people hitting me left and right because I cannot keep my head above water. So, unfortunately, I decided to forgo swimming, but I have seen other folks in wheelchairs on larger cruise ships definitely dive into the pools.
I decided to spend a little bit of extra money to get a Junior Suite with a balcony, instead of a regular state room. I needed the extra room for my manual and power chair, as well as all of my stuff. We still found the Junior Suite quite cramped and had to move a lot of the furniture out, which the staff were more than happy to help us with. I did not see what a regular size room looked like, but if you are in a power chair, I imagine it would be quite challenging to maneuver around in a smaller room. The roll in showers, however, were really great. I had my herculean boyfriend lift me up onto the shower bench, which I actually do not recommend if you are paralyzed from the chest down, but we made it work. I would grab on to him as he showered me, and then he would pick me up like a princess to put me back in bed. It’s probably advisable to rent a shower chair or bring your own on these cruise ships.
CONCLUSION: If you are in a wheelchair and don’t plan on taking many shore excursions in order to stay on the ship to participate in all of the activities, I highly recommend booking your cruise on one of the larger ships that have multiple pools, multiple decks, and more activities. I personally felt too cramped on the small ship to take part in dancing at night or swimming in the pool.
While I’m not personally a fan of being on a cruise ship due not liking to be told how many hours I can go explore something, when I have to be back, and having to rush with the fear of being left behind, I can understand the appeal of cruising for many folks in wheelchairs. The ships are fabulously accessible, the staff are extremely accommodating, there are activities for all if you stay on the ship, and if you like to just watch the ocean roll by, it is extremely relaxing.
I think our next vacation will probably be to some all-inclusive resort near white sand beaches with a giant zero entry pool where they make fantastic piña coladas!
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